This essay discusses the impact of colonialism on gender roles and patriarchy in the age of modernity, with specific reference to the works of Maria Lugones. The author shares personal experiences and highlights the consolidation of patriarchy in the capitalistic model of economy. The essay also explores the normalization of sexual activities and the demonization of men and women of color as sexually aggressive and beasts. The author concludes by emphasizing the need for an autonomous body of feminist thought to solve the issues faced by women from the third world.