This article discusses the conflicts that arise in the family when it comes to the division of labor among the sexes. The key concept in this article is household labor. The root cause of the conflicts between men and women when it comes to housework can be attributed to the changes in the social structure. To settle these conflicts, objective preventive strategies, intersubjective preventive strategies, subjective preventive strategies, objective acute strategies, intersubjective acute strategies, and subjective acute strategies should be employed.