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Intermediate Counseling Skills
Intermediate Counseling Skills1RoleThe Egan Skilled Helper Approach has encouraged with clients for becoming activeinterpreters with the world while the action, events as well as the situations has the facesand overcome the challenges with exploring the problem issues which is seeking the newopportunities as well as in establishing the goals. The skilled Helper has the aims for helpingtheir customers to develop skills as well as knowledge which are necessary for solving boththe current issues and that may arise with future. The Skilled Helper has also helped withclient for transferring the new acquired skills with the knowledge for fresh situations inestablishing the appropriate as well as realistic goals which is measurable, reasonable,ethical, achievable as well as realistic(Steven, A, 2017).Goals of Egan’sApositive outcomeis being offered by Egan as valuable in helping individuals take care ofissues and create openings. The outcome of utilizing this model is major to help theindividuals 'to deal with their issues in living all the more adequately and create unused opendoors more completely,' and to 'enable individuals to wind up plainly better at helpingthemselves in their regular day to day existences. Thus there is an accentuation onstrengthening. Additionally, the individual's possess motivation is focal, and the model triesto move the individual towards activity prompting results which they pick and esteem.Self-helpas this model is somewhere depends on to help the individuals 'to deal with theirissues in living more adequately and create unused open doors all the more completely', andto 'enable individuals to wind up plainly better at helping themselves in their regular day today existence which is creating a self-help as the individuals are helping themselves tomotivate themselves and cope up with their issues and mainly this model depends on thethree questions that are being related to self. These three questions symbolize:'What is happening?What do I need?'In what capacity may I get to what I need?'This model helps in making a plan and moreover putting into action and achieving theirgoals.Preventativementality Reflecting and elucidating makes the path forward self-evident. Bethat as it may, whenever irritate or rose up to, it is frequently hard to see things obviouslyand locate one's specific manner out of the soil. The talented partner can help with
Intermediate Counseling Skills2distinguishing the blindsides, bits in an eye, misperceptions as there are many things thatare going on which creates a lot of questions and mainly if all the stages are not beingfollowed it will create a failure for individuals.The three processes:Thus Egan’s Skilled Model consists of three processes or stageswhich are described briefly here.1.Exploration: At this stage mentor can know what is going on inside mentee’s and helpinghim to explain that thinking without any judgement. The process includes positive bodylanguage, eye contact, focusing on what is being told and what is the planning is goingon, the acceptancy as well as empathy.2.Challenging: This process is encouraging the mentee with the thinking process whetheranother way of judgment any issue.3.Action Planning: There goal in turn has the possible way out for acquiring the results, it isvery important to help the mentee for setting realistic , achievable or practical targets(Nelson, 2007).Life cycle relationshipThe life cycle relationship states that every relationship passes through different stages inwhich individual face different situation. The life cycle relationship refers to a cycle or amechanism in which a relationship build, develop, reach to its maturity, decline, and thenultimately ends. It means every relationship goes through different phases from start to theending of the relationship. The life cycle relationship states that every relationship ends.When a relationship completes its life cycle or the natural life cycle the most appropriatething for the parties in the relationship to do is the end. Every relationship begins, reaches toits middle or maturity and then ultimately end. Every relationship passes through severalstages such as early stage of the stage of romance, in which the parties in the relationshipenjoy their closeness and make every step of their life memorable, then the stage of strugglecomes in which differences of opinion arises due to which the parties of the relationship facedifficulties in their relationship, after the struggle stage the stage of stability comes in whichthe parties in a relationship share mutual understanding and cooperate with each other tohave a strong relationship, next stage is commitment stage in which all the parties in therelationship make commitment to fulfill the needs and wants of each other to have a strongrelationship. After the stage of commitment, the stage of conflict arises in which one of theparties or all the parties start arguing with each other on every small mistake of any party. Ifthis stage is not sorted out the relationship reaches the stage of the end in which all theparties mutually agree to be separate from each other(Mälkki & Alanne, 2017).