Psychological Counselling docx.

Running Head: PSYCHOLOGICAL COUNSELLING
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Psychological Counselling
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PSYCHOLOGICAL COUNSELLING 2
(a) Identify 3 micro skills you as a counsellor have used effectively in the
recorded session. For each skill identified, discussed with reference to a particular
transaction(s) why the skill was used in an effective manner.
As a counsellor, I have been able to identify three microskills that have been used
effectively in the recorded session. The first skill that I have identified is the skill of
questioning, (Traynor, 2018). I was able to ask my clients some questions during the
conversation so as to her understand her better and to show my concern towards her issues. I
asked her if she had attempted to apply the online job in the website, I asked her about her work
and I also asked her to know more about her siblings and parents. The references are quoted in
the respective manner; “So do you plan to apply?” “Okay, so uh, are you working? Or can you,
maybe you can tell me more about your- your work. Hello? Can you hear me?”, “So, uh, what
about your sibling? Can you tell me more about your sibling, are they working?”
The second skill that I identified is the skill for reflection and feeling, (Hill, 2014). As
my client was explaining to me about her condition, I identified the above skill because I was
able to reflect how she was feeling when she raised her concern. This skill is beneficial to the
client because she will have a strong feeling that at least someone is keenly paying attention to
what she is feeling and this will release her anxiety, (Cangelosi, 2014). For instance at the pointy
when I was asking my client the of feelings that she is undergoing, I wanted to know if she was
feeling sad, annoyed angry or disappointed with herself. This was to help me know the root
Adeline’s anxiety so that I could be able to assist.
The third microskill that I identified was the skill for attending, (Hill, 2015). I attended
to my client by being available during the conversation up to the end of the conversation. This

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was to show my concern to the client’s needs and my availability to listen to her concerns in
order to give an advice where necessary. In giving reference to this skill, the time I asked my
client how she was doing and what issue made her come there was an evidence that I was already
attending to my client and that she could go ahead and speak out the main reason why she was
there.
(b) Identify 2 microskills used in the recorded session which you feel have not been used
effectively. For each skill identified, discuss with reference to particular transaction(s) why the
skill was not used effective.
As a counselor, I was also able to identify two microskills that were not used in effective
manner. The first skill is the skill for active listening, (Barsky, 2012). This skill is not used in an
effective manner because active listening requires the parties communicating to apply the
etiquettes used in a communication. For instance one should interrupt the other when still
talking; he or she must wait until the other speaker is through with her statement. When one
interacts the other party while still talking they should excuse themselves first before taking or
let the other party to finish talking. In our conversation with Adeline, she could respond to me
before I finish my statement like in this reference; “Counsellor: Um ... uh, it is, it is in some of
the website, are you aware- aware of it? The- there is this, um, photos, uh, was- Adeline: Oh
yeah, I did, yeah [crosstalk 00:00:10]. Counsellor: Yeha, uh, this, uh, this, uh, gifts- what you
call it? Relief funds for those who are- Adeline: Yes, yes. Actually I did hear it from my colleague
recently, this temporary relief fund.”
The second microskill that was not used in an effective manner is the skill of
summarising, (Shelton & Son, 2010). As the counsellor I was not able to summarise Adeline’s