Analysis of Parenting Styles in the Movie Parenthood

This article analyzes the parenting styles of the characters in the movie Parenthood based on Baumrind's model of physiological dynamic. It focuses on the characters Gil Buckman, Frank Buckman, and Kelvin, and discusses their parenting approaches and the impact on their children.

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The movie Parenthood is a comedy film that chiefly depicts the story of four sub families that
possess their own specific stresses as well as issues. The film demonstrates varied parenting
styles which are based on Baumrind’s model of physiological dynamic.
Analysis of the character Gil
The character “Gil Buckman’ is the lead character of the film. His character is a portrayal
of hard working as well as compassionate parent. In spite of the fact that Gil has demonstrated
“authorative” parenting style, his character has exhibited Generativity. Generativity versus
stagnation is the seventh of eight stages of Erik Erikson's theory of psychosocial development
that is the stage of middle adulthood in which Gil falls (Knight, 2017). For instance, during the
basket ball match in the film, Kelvin, the eldest son of Gil, was chosen to replace one of the team
mates who had got hurt. While Kelvin was worried and doubtful about whether he should opt for
the position or not, Kelvin encouraged him by telling him that he can do it no matter what
happens and finally, Kelvin was found to be performing really well. The character of Gil was
shown to be assertive but not restrictive or intrusive. When it comes to his work life balance, it
has been seen that Gil faced difficulty while maintaining the same. In the movie was found to be
struggling to distribute adequate attention to his children since his job was highly demanding.
However, when Kelvin was found to be suffering from learning disability, he demonstrated the
willing of devoting more time towards his family.
Analysis of the character Frank Buckman
Frank Buckman was the patriarch of the Buckman family, who had effectively raised four kids to
be responsible adults. In the early stage of his parenthood, he demonstrated the role of a
neglectful father who did not provide enough time to his children due to his demanding job. Due

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to lack of communication and time spent with his children, Frank was not able to emotionally
connect with them. When it comes to Erickson’s sixth stage of physiological development, Frank
has demonstrated Isolation that is characterised by avoiding intimacy and fearing commitment or
relationship during his early adulthood. In his middle adulthood stage, Frank demonstrated
stagnantion. He failed to contribute to nurture the emotion of his children and thus developed a
feeling of disconnection and uninvolvement (Cherry, 2017). However, Frank demonstrated
permissive indulgence to one of his son Larry. Considering the fact that Larry had never been
provided effective guidance towards moral and ethics by his father, he is found to misuse Frank’s
trust on him. When it comes to the late adulthood state of Frank, both Ego integrity and Despair
was fund to be experienced by him. He felt guilty about his inappropriate parenting in the past
and a sense of dissatisfaction was found to creep up in him. This feeling in turn was found to
lead Frank to depression in his late adulthood.
Analysis of the character of Kelvin
Kelvin was the eldest son of the three children of Gil. He is 9 years old and a highly
imaginary child. For instance, the choice he showed during his birthday party format and also
during his predisposition towards video game is the evidence of his imaginative nature. He was
in Erickson’s Fourth stage of psychological crisis that involves industry or competence versus
inferiority. According to Dunkel and Harbke, (2017), in this stage the peer group of the children
get greater significance in his or her life and becomes a major source of his or her self esteem.
The child feels the need of approval for demonstrating specific competencies which are valued in
the society. Unfortunately, Kelvin was suffering from lack of competence in that stage. Kelvin
had learning disabilities for which he was bullied by his peers that in turn developed inferiority
complex in him. In one of the scenes of the film, Gil and his wife Karen was called by the

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counsellor in order to inform them that their child is suffering from concentration issue an thus
belongs to the “special” child group. This had further imposed negative impact on the child’s
mind. He became doubtful about his capability and developed lack of self confidence. According
to the Erickson’s Theory of psychological crisis, in case a child is unable to develop specific skill
they think the society is demanding, they stated developing a sense of inferiority within
themselves (Malone et al., 2016). However, both of his parents were found to be providing
effective support to Kelvin so that he and deal with psychological crisis and develop effective
self-confidence.

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