Sociology Kuwait Research Paper 2022

RUNNING HEAD: SOCIOLOGY 0
Sociology
7/27/2019

SOCIOLOGY 1
One of the greatest days of my life was the day when my son was born after three years of
marriage. We named him, Mohammad Aljabbanan he is a Syrian and was born in Kuwait.
The first time I held him and gazed into his eyes I felt like I want nothing else apart from him
in this world. The warm sensation of him made my entire body tingle with joy and no words
could define how happy I felt that day. Becoming a father is the biggest lesson one could ever
get in this life. Before my son was born, I was a careless person with no motivation but
watching him growing up, I grew up too. My son has been my motivation to succeed and
every day I wake up to work harder for them. The amount of love we share is the greatest and
unconditional. Fatherhood is about not your own wants and needs but your child’s need and
wants (Welldon 179).
All this did not come without difficulties; I had to become financially strong to take care of
my wife and child. The feeling of becoming a responsible father is beyond words. The
process of delivering of a child from a mother’s womb is a magnificent experience for
women because childbirth is a natural endeavour but for a father it is magnificent in several
other ways (Laney, Tamara and Willingham 126-145). I had to leave my college in mid due
this unplanned pregnancy of my wife and to nurture my family. My life took a toll due to
crisis of studies and my parents abandoned me because of having the decision of this baby.
I had to leave my city to move for the job to get a better package to take care of my all
necessities. I had to withdraw all my savings to give my child a sense of livelihood but not
for a day I felt bad for spoiling my life. When this child was in my wife’s womb, it made me
stronger and more driven to demonstrate everyone in surrounding wrong and to lift my head
high always. Every blessing come with some shortcomings, not much money, totally self-
dependent affected my mental health in several ways. I had to deal with severe issues by
myself though I had a number of friends who really helped me in hard times.