Sociology: Exploring Variables in Relationship Choices and Culture

This discussion board post delves into the cultural variables that influence relationship choices, examining how societal norms and media impact individual preferences. The author discusses the significance of emotional intelligence, realistic expectations, and family influences in partner selection. The post highlights Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love (intimacy, passion, and commitment) as a key factor and contrasts it with socially arranged marriages prevalent in some cultures. The author expresses particular interest in the three variables of Sternberg's theory. References are included to support the arguments presented, providing a comprehensive analysis of cultural influences on relationship formation and the importance of maintaining a healthy relationship.

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1. What are the variables in your culture that determine the menu of choices regarding who is
available for you to have a relationship? What is the variable that intrigues you the most?
Why?
Construction of relationships are done in two ways, culturally and socially. There are
various aspects a human being think and desire while choosing a partner. There are many
individuals which have some emotional need, that includes love, affection, touch. Various people
seek love in different form, but cultural norms and policies can change the desire and demands
while choosing a definite partner. The cultural norms that I live in adheres to many unrealistic
goals, which are generated by the force of media and popular culture. Many people follow the
unrealistic goals and cannot readily define and maintain an actual belief of love relationship.
Relationship are very important for maintaining a person’s social, emotional and mental
health. The menu of choices while choosing a person is aligning the mentality and emotional
intelligence, understanding the realistic aspects of maintaining realistic relationship that reflects
companionship, comfort, and security. In our culture, families often look for a settled and mature
person, who can take responsibility in keeping his/ her partner mentally secured as well as
providing monetary security. According to the Stemberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, there are
basic elements that build up a marriage and a strong relationship that is Intimacy, Passion and
Commitment(Anderson, 2016). This three are the variables that intrigues me the most while
looking for a partner. In many conservative culture, socially arranged marriage are preferable,
which is done by rigorous selection so that the cultural traditions are passed to the next
generation (Muldrew, 2016). This type of relationship building are most prevalent in Eastern
countries, sometimes this can lead to misunderstanding a the couples are not well acquainted

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with each other, only the cultural status is maintained can result in unrealistic relationship
building in future.
References
Anderson, J. W. (2016). S ternberg's Triangular Theory of Love. Encyclopedia of family studies,
1-3.
Muldrew, C. (2016). The economy of obligation: the culture of credit and social relations in
early modern England. Springer.