Supporting Significant Life Events and Available Support

This paper discusses the significant life events that can impact individuals and social networks, including positive and negative impacts. It also explores the support available for people experiencing significant life events, including organizational, social network, and external sources of support. The paper concludes with a reflection on personal contributions to supporting individuals experiencing significant life events.

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Introduction
Human beings pass through different stages of life. Each stage provide its own unique
event that maybe expected or unexpected. Life events are events that changes the status or
circumstances of an individual. These events can be predictable or unpredictable. Life events can
bring joy or sadness in human lives. They destabilize the status of an individual at any situation.
Major life events in human life are having a birth, getting marriage or divorce, death of a loved
one, starting a new job, losing a job, change of residence, losing health, getting promotion in the
job and retirements. Unpredictable life events tends to find people unprepared and in most cases
leads to challenges when trying to adjust to accommodate them (Robben, 2017, pp.67-78). The
major aim of this paper is to bring out the significant life events in human lives and how they can
impacts on person and social networks they belong.
Significant life events and their impacts
Life events at the first initial stages affects individuals at the personal level. Impacts with
time are experienced by the people around the affected individual. Impacts can be classified into
positive or negative depending with the consequences they attracts (Kubler, 2014, pp. 32-39). To
start with, giving birth, getting marriage, getting promotion at the job and retirement all leads to
joy and happiness to the people in our social networks, hence qualifying into positive impacts.
On the other hand, death of loved ones, losing the health, losing a job, and accidents or
disabilities are significant life events that exposes individuals into negative impacts linked to
health effects like stress, depressions and illness that in most cases are very challenging to
manage. Stresses and depression leads to traumatic conditions that are connected to emotional

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impacts like sense of loss, social impacts like isolation and seclusion, and intellectual impacts
like loosing of the cognitive functions (Kessler, 2014, p. 78).
Impacts are experienced by friends, family, working colleagues and everyone connected
to the person experiencing the life event. In most cases impacts as it have been highlighted
earlier leads to illness, depression, family breakdown and to a larger extent cause criminality
(Corr, 2018, pp.16-20)
Life events like diseases have also been reported to expose the individuals in the financial
problems. Diseases attracts huge bills that forces one to sell properties and personal belongings
to cater for the bills. Death of the parents leave the children with difficulties in meeting their
basic needs. This in most cases in developing countries contributes to the escalation of the
number of street families in the cities. Other life events that exposes one into financial
difficulties are lose of job, accidents and unplanned retirement (Ross, 2015, pp. 78-92).
Focusing on the other side of the coin, life events like starting a job and getting a
promotion leads to positive financial impacts to individuals and people in the social networks.
People on the health care also experience the negative impacts as a result of life events to the
people they are taking care of. Diseases like cancer for instance is a significant life events that
exposes the health practitioners into stress and sacrifices of their time and resources when
struggling to manage (Corr, 2016, pp. 78-96).
As mention earlier life events leads to stresses, depressions and traumatic conditions to an
individual. To some extent these conditions can leads to abnormality and brain damage and other
conditions like cancer leading to difficulties in handling individuals with this conditions. This
exposes therapist in stresses and difficulties in execution of their duties. The difficulties increases

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with the extent of the life event. In general, life events as elaborated above leads to impacts
classified into four groups namely; physical or health impacts, emotional impacts, social impacts
and intellectual impacts (Fergusson, 2014, pp.67-69).
Support available for people experiencing significant life events
There exist many organizations and platforms to provide support to individual and their social
networks experiencing significant life events. Different organizations and government agencies
have different policies placed in place to reduce the impacts of the life events to the affected
individuals (Horwood, 2014, pp.93-96).
Organisational support to individuals experiencing significant life events
Support exist in three major form namely; Organisational policies and procedures,
support from the social networks and support from external sources. Organizational policies and
procedures are placed in place in relation to provide proper counselling, access to specialist
service and maintenance of the individual dignity. Different charitable organizations like WHO
and CRUSE has measures in place to assist people going through grief in their lives. People
living with stress, depressions and traumatic conditions are provided with counselling and
trainings to overcome these conditions (Taylor, 2018.pp.2-20).
The policies have been effective especially to the bereaved individuals. CRUSE for
example has assisted more than 32000 people including the children. Strict measures and
guidelines to curb the impacts have been provided. These measures are in order to identify the
affected people and links them to necessary aids, protect, and ensure they are getting proper care

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necessary. Proper organization’s procedures and policies provide support to both individuals and
social network to manage the significant life events (Law, 2015, p.78).
Social networks support to individuals experiencing significant life events
Social network including friends, family, coworkers, partners, supporting groups and
self-help groups also provide support to the people going through the life events. Social networks
provide immediate help to individuals going through grieves. The help at this stage include
physical, mental and financial supports to affected groups. Financial support assist people going
through significant life events to access proper medications and nutrition.
Social networks also provide support by encouraging the individuals on life events to
seek proper services like medications and professional counselling. Social networks have proven
to be very effective in providing support to the people undergoing significant life events because
they are next to them and any emotional, social, physical and intellectual change is noticed easily
(Weber, 2016, p.20).
Suitability of external sources of support for those affected by significant life events
External foundations of support include charitable groups, online, societal care and health
specialists, social media and self-help groups. All these have been there to support individuals
overcome grieves and live normal lives. The biggest problem that hinder this support is
depression and lack proper communications. Most people undergoing life events tends to avoid
communications, hence suffer internally and with time this can leads to dangers patient’s health.
This group involve doctor and therapist who walk with the patients with significant life events to
achieve their normal lives (Generaal, 2016, pp.34-45).

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Organisational responses to need to support individuals experiencing significant life events
Over the years, different healthcare and social care have different responses for people
experiencing significant life event. Reactions depends on the way they view these kinds of
people. To begin with, national health care services provide counselling, guidance, and
treatments to the people experiencing the life events. In the recent past a number of campaigns
have been done to promote people experiencing diseases like cancer and HIV which are
significant life events. The campaigns are intended to give appropriate policy framework and
guidelines in tackling these conditions (Philips, 2015, pp.359-368).
Secondly, speedy assessment of situations and proper provision of right cares and
guidance to the individual going through difficult life events form a second response. This is
done through practitioners, hospitals and clinics to diagnose the affected groups in our society.
they are able to closely assess patient’s needs and recommend proper care services as per the
level of the life events (Eskin,2014,pp.89-94)
Thirdly, health care giver institutions form the basis of the second response. These
institutions gives treatments care to patients and also provide psychological supports to the
affected individuals and their families. The care giver respond with long term strategies and
planning for affected individuals. They give support services, treatment needs and ensure the
patient are comfortable and free from any kind of pain (Uslu,2014,pp.89-94).
Reflection of personal contributions to support individual experiencing life events
From my own evaluation, I am pretty sure my contribution towards provision of support to
individuals experiencing difficult life events is in developmental stage. Throughout the course I

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have learn the need of providing necessities to individuals and their families. I have also learned
the joy of providing genuine concerns support (Generaal, 2016, pp.4-9)..
I trust my expertise in communications and I can be able to link up well with the affected
individuals and their families, hence providing necessary guidance and needs as much as
possible. Just for the record, last year when I was working in one of the organization, one of my
colleagues get sick but no one noticed until it was too late. The realization comes and we had to
make financial contributions to support him. Apart from helping him financially, I was able to
meet him daily and provide my moral supports and guidelines (Weber, 2016, pp.36-42).
Conclusion
This study has indicated that in human being lifetime, different life events are
experienced which have significant effects in one way or the other on how people lives and
relates to other in the society. Significant life events calls for maximum support and care. Overall
life events leave affected people in grieves and it is at this time they need the support from
friends and family most. Some life events like cancer make the patients feel scared, stressed and
angry as results of the unexpected and unwanted changes in their lives.
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